Sometimes you think that another person really went too far and that he or she need to make excuses to you. But the result of this attitude is an enlargement of the conflict. Please ask yourself the following questions: how important is the relationship for you? Why did you became friends? If the other person never was a good friend or when there never was a good relationship, ask yourself if it maybe wiser to give your energy to something or somebody else.

When you focus constantly on the other and keep demanding that he or she makes excuses, then you make the other person very important and you invest a lot of energy in that person. Anger is an energy consumer. To let it go out of impotence is that also. The feelings aren't leaving; every now and then you are agitated. What really did the other person? Is that so important? It has probably nothing to do with you. Why are you so angry about it? Which standards and convictions of you are underlying this? Do you still agree on them, or is it time to revise them?

Be careful with your energy!